Cheaters = blech. Am I right? So why do we let them get away with it all the time? Why do we never say anything when we see a taken guy hitting on chicks? Sure, it’s a tough situation. Will the cheatee believe your story about the cheater? Maybe not. Of course, they might shoot the messenger, too. However, if you really care about people who have breakable hearts, why are you making it worse for them?

If someone would have told me about some (very true) instances with my ex, I would have done something about it…even if it meant just being a little more suspicious. It would have boiled down to a lot less time spent taking excellent care of a cheater. Plus, I may be mad at my friend’s insinuation that my lovey-dovey is cheating, but eventually, I would realize that he/she was just looking out for me. All I know now is that my ignorance in the situation led to me finding out later and feeling very stupid, used, and blind. From experience, I can say that this is not something I want other people to feel if it can be helped. Plus, the idiot never got his butt properly handed to him, so now he’s repeating the pattern. I did my part, and I have to hope other people are making the right decisions. Don’t reward bad behavior with your secrecy.

So, in summary, if you see someone who is in an exclusive relationship with me doing something he shouldn’t…tell me. Immediately. OKTHXBYE.